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Written by Stuart Sorensen – RMN
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I think, therefore I am.
And all that I am is dictated by my thoughts.
Thought breeds opinion, opinion belief.
Belief engenders attitude
And attitude, behavior.
Therefore in order to live well
A man must first strive to think well.
His thoughts must be as a strong fortress
To withstand the onslaught of derision and dogma
And yet welcoming enough to admit the arguments of reason.
Thought must be fluid and well conceived,
It must not be fixed and yet its’ foundations must be secure.
And thought belongs to us all.
In this, the second anxiety management handout, we will consider the psychological or cognitive symptoms of anxiety. Although it isn’t possible to cover all the cognitive aspects of anxiety in such a short document this should help you gain some understanding of the thoughts which give rise to anxiety (anxiogenic thoughts).
Before we begin to study the thoughts themselves it’s worth spending a little time thinking about the nature of thought itself and the effect thought has upon behavior. Actually psychologists believe that thoughts are a form of behavior themselves. They can be described as mental behaviors and as we all know behaviors can be changed.
The idea of thought as behavior is central to anxiety management. It is through taking control of and changing our thinking style that we develop the skills we need to cope with our worries. In the end it comes down to personal choice. We can choose which thoughts to accept and work with and which thoughts we’d rather ignore. This, in essence, is the cognitive basis of anxiety management.
Actually everyone already chooses their beliefs, no matter how unlikely or unsupportable they may be. That’s how we protect our Ego and self-esteem. That’s why two perfectly reasonable and intelligent people can draw completely different conclusions from the same evidence. Political differences or religious beliefs are classic examples of this ability we all have to choose what we want to believe. Sometimes we become so entrenched in our opinions that we actually choose to ignore every piece of evidence that doesn’t fit in with our preconceived notions about ‘reality’. At the same time we emphasize the evidence that does fit. Psychologists call this selective abstraction, without which inappropriate anxiety would arguably be impossible.
Nevertheless many people find it very difficult to accept the idea that we can choose what to believe. If you’re one of these people – and you’re not alone – please bear with me. By the end of this handout you’ll not only be convinced but also you’ll have learned a tried and tested formula with which to consciously decide upon anxiety beating beliefs instead of anxiety creating ones. All you have to do is read on with an open mind.
What follows is a series of statements or beliefs which either create or destroy anxiety. Each is followed by a short summary of its’ effect upon anxiety and, where appropriate an alternative belief is suggested. Please bear in mind that people usually decide what they want to believe first and then look for evidence to support it afterwards. That’s why lovers can do no wrong in each other’s eyes and the actions of enemies are generally considered to be malicious. It’s that old process of ‘selective abstraction’ again. Why not use the system to your advantage by making it conscious (within your control) instead of unconscious.
STATEMENTS AFFECTING ANXIETY
1. I can predict the future
Most people deny holding this belief absolutely. They think of fortune telling as the realm of cranks and weirdoes. However many people spend their entire lives worrying about future predictions they have made which never come true. They have wrongly predicted the future with such conviction that they ruin any chance they may have had of finding peace of mind. Think about the things that have worried you over the years. The things you got most worked up about? How many of them actually came true no matter how convinced you were that they would? Anxiety is almost always based upon unconscious fortune telling.
A more helpful belief may be:
I can make an educated guess – a projection about what is likely to happen and then make plans to avoid catastrophe. Then I can stop worrying about it. 2. If I think it then it has to be true.
Once again most people deny holding this belief. On a conscious, rational level they know that thoughts are only thoughts. Unconsciously however anxious people become so convinced of the ‘truth’ of their thoughts that they stop being able to rationalize at all. If the thought in question is ‘fortune telling’ as discussed above then they really are setting themselves up for a fall.
A more helpful belief may be:
I can measure my thoughts objectively against the evidence and decide whether to accept or reject them. I don’t have to believe everything I consider. 3. It is unbearable when things go wrong.
This is called catastrophic thinking and it’s one of the fastest ways there is to destroy your peace of mind. After all, let’s fact it, things go wrong on a very regular basis. If you hold this belief then of course you’re going to worry. You may be very objective in your assessment of the situation – the fact that things do often go wrong – but the way you interpret that likelihood will give rise to anxiety. It’s important to get things into perspective.
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Written by Stuart Sorensen – RMN
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There are many types of anxiety disorder ranging from mild feelings of ‘worry’ at one end of the scale to complete panic attacks at the other. Although these extremes are very different in severity the basic ‘process’ of anxiety is the same for both. It is the awareness of this process which forms the basis of anxiety management techniques.
Let’s begin by understanding what anxiety is not. ANXIETY IS NOT OUR ENEMY. In fact, we all need a certain amount of anxiety in our daily lives just to keep us going. It’s the little ‘worries’ and trivial concerns of everyday life that motivate us to get out of the bed in the morning.
APPROPRIATE AND INAPPROPRIATE ANXIETY
The first person to meaningfully classify anxiety was the Austrian psycho-analyst Sigmund Freud. He divided it into two broad areas which are still accepted today. These are the areas of appropriate and inappropriate. Let’s look at what this means.
When we are faced with threatening situations we need to be aware of the dangers they represent. The way we recognize them as dangerous is by our feelings of anxiety. It can be thought of as a call to action warning us that something is wrong and prompting us to act. This is called appropriate anxiety because it helps us to stay safe.
Sometimes however people become anxious inappropriately. They perceive or imagine a threat which isn’t actually there. This is called inappropriate anxiety because it prompts us to act inappropriately, running away or losing control of ourselves for example.
The way to decide whether or not anxiety is appropriate is to carefully weigh up all the information logically. Also see if other people think the situation is actually threatening or dangerous. If not it’s likely that your anxiety is inappropriate. Later we’ll look at ways of combating anxiety but for now it’s enough just to learn how to recognize it. Below are some questions you can ask yourself about your anxiety.
What’s the worst that can happen?
What can I do to cope if the worst were to happen?
How likely is it that the worst will happen?
What’s most likely to happen?
Am I worrying about a problem (which can be solved) or a fact which can’t be altered?
If it can’t be altered (something in the past perhaps) is it appropriate to worry about it or should I just move on?
If the situation can be altered isn’t it better to act instead of just worrying?
Let’s look at how anxiety works – the fight or flight mechanism.
FIGHT OR FLIGHT
Anxiety is part of our natural defense system. If we didn’t get anxious about dangerous situations we probably wouldn’t live very long. The process of anxiety triggers the ‘fight or flight’ response – a vital defense system which is common to all mammals and most other animals as well. Let’s look at how the fight or flight system works.
Imagine you’re walking along a dark street at night. Suddenly from out of the shadows a large man appears with a knife and tries to stab you. You have two choices – to run away or to fight. Fight or flight.
Whatever you decide to do it’s important that your body works as well as it can if you are to survive. You need to be able to rely on your muscles to run or to fight back and you must stay alert to other possible dangers – the man may have an accomplice for example. Whether you choose fight or flight you need to be at your best in order to survive.
The body’s way of preparing us for peak performance is what we call anxiety. It involves a lot of physical changes which can seem frightening and confusing until we learn to understand their meaning. Let’s look at some of the more usual symptoms of anxiety. These can be divided into two categories – physical and psychological.
PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS OF ANXIETY
Muscle tension is one of the most common physical symptoms. It is the body’s way of storing up energy in the muscles in readiness for action. The more energy is stored the greater the tension we feel. Sometimes people experience aching muscles or a trembling sensation. This can result in uncontrollable shaking as the muscles store up more and more energy. Imagine the tension in a heavy spring as it gets pressed down. In many ways the tension in our muscles is just like that.
Of course all that energy uses fuel and the more tense we become the more fuel we need. The body’s fuel supply is controlled by breathing and blood flow or circulation. Blood is pumped around the body by the heart to provide nutrients and oxygen to the muscles and tissues. At times of anxiety more fuel is needed so the heart rate speeds up and often it feels as though the heart will ‘explode’ as it fights to keep the muscles properly fuelled. Also breathing speeds up and becomes more shallow so people begin to ‘gasp’ for breath. All this extra physical exertion provides heat and so the body begins to sweat – our natural cooling mechanism.
In order to get enough energy to the large muscles of the body such as legs, arms and the abdominal muscles blood supply to the less important areas is reduced. That’s why some people experience a tingling sensation (pins and needles) in their hands or feet. It also explains the churning stomach or butterflies sensation. That simply means that the system is working efficiently in order to keep us safe. Incidentally the need to use the lavatory is just another part of the same process. It is no more than a sign that things are working as they should.
Remember the attacker in the street we talked about earlier. You’d have a much better chance of escaping or defeating him and his cronies with all that energy stored up in preparation for fight or flight.
PSYCHOLOGICAL SYMPTOMS OF ANXIETY
Of course the man with the knife may not be the only problem you have. It may be that there’s another assailant or some other danger lurking just around the corner. It’s important that you stay alert and keep a constant check on your surroundings. That’s why your mind begins to hop from one topic to another. It’s checking for danger so you can have as much warning as possible if something else crops up. Sometimes we experience this constant checking as paranoia but it’s actually an important part of the fight or flight mechanism. This constant searching for things which may become a threat to us is what we call worrying. It’s also why some people seem unable to concentrate on any one thing when they’re anxious. They have to keep reviewing a large number of things in order to make sure they’re still safe. This is what we call racing thoughts.
SYMPATHETIC AND PARASYMPATHETIC NERVOUS SYSTEMS
Now for the scientific bit!!
The fight or flight mechanism is rather like an electric circuit. It can only be ‘on’ or ‘off’. When we get anxious and our body changes in the ways described above the system is ‘on’. That’s because of the action of the SYMPATHETIC NERVOUS SYSTEM. It’s just like flicking a switch which sets the whole system in motion.
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